How to Make a Woman Orgasm - Get Her to Think About Sex From the Date Itself
By [http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Branson_Yen]Branson Yen
This female orgasm step-by-step guide is the key to all the right moves you need, to satisfy your woman in bed. However, it is needed to be executed carefully in order to bring her to the peak of satisfaction. Any unaccomplished step may jeopardise your chances of getting her into the bed with you. Here's a brief run through of what you should do, from the moment you meet that special girl.
Mutual Communication and Trust Building
The real key here is effective communication with your partner. Sometimes, a woman will not know what to expect and especially if she does not know you for a long time, she may get nervous.
You need to reassure her and take the initiative to lead her from the moment you are with her all the way to the bedroom. Most guys make the mistake of rushing and revealing their intentions to have sex, too early.
Instead, you should slow things down a notch. Build enough trust in her first, so she will feel comfortable with being with you. The best place to start, is the conversation itself. Encourage her to tell you more about herself; her likes and dislikes.
Getting Physical
Next step, hold her hands. If she is comfortable with you, she will not resist your advances. Holding hands is a clear signal that she is already getting to feel comfortable with you. Don't be afraid of showing your affection towards her.
When she is feeling cold, rub her shoulders gently. When you hold her in your arms, smell her hair and plant a kiss on her forehead. Escalation towards sex, should be slow and gradual. Whisper into her ears and tell her how much you want her.
This not only makes her feel important to you, but at the same, she will anticipate what your next move will be. Invite her to your place and tell her that you want to cook her dinner so both of you can just eat on the couch, and watch your favorite DVD.
Taking Things Inside The Bedroom
Ok. Assuming you have finished your dinner and the both of you are slouching lazily on the couch. You need to get close to her and proceed to foreplay.
Continue to do the things that you have done earlier, the smelling of her hair, kissing on her forehead, rubbing her shoulders... etc.
This time, kiss her lips and do not be afraid to use tongue.
Kissing is one of the most sensual stimulation a woman enjoys. It helps her to get turned on more easily. Next you need to touch her in her more sensitive areas. It will be helpful, if you know where are her erogenous areas are.
Every woman have different preference to different stimulation. So you really need to pay close attention to how she responds to each touch. If she moans slightly and raises her head, you are on the right track.
You just need to continue doing what she likes. Then, you can proceed to kissing behind her ears. You can blow gently behind her ears.
Most women find this a particularly arousing. Do not be surprised with such a simply move, you can create a strong physical arousal that will leave her wanting more of you. Slide your hand up her breasts and fondle them with her clothes still on.
The idea is to take things at a slow and comfortable pace. Get her used to your touch in her private areas first. Once you are sure that she is enjoying it, you can take things further by sliding your hands under her bra.
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